Have you ever encountered this situation? A highly capable newcomer is parachuted into the company, and their performance is approaching that of the senior manager at a rate of 20% per month. The manager praises them on the surface, but starts using “company processes” and “compliance risks” to block the newcomer’s projects.
This is not targeted at individuals, but the “Thucydides Trap” in human nature at work.
What is the Everyday Version of the “Thucydides Trap”?
Thucydides Trap is an international political theory describing how when a newly rising number two threatens the status of the number one, both sides are highly likely to head toward conflict.
But its essence is not “international politics”, but rather “the fatal flaw of human nature and power structures”.
As long as three conditions are met, this trap will automatically activate.
| Condition | Explanation |
|---|---|
| An established interest holder (Number One) | The party that occupies the position and controls resources |
| A rapidly catching-up pursuer (Number Two) | The party that grows quickly and threatens the Number One |
| A closed environment with limited resources | Limited promotion spots, a market of fixed size, only one dominant power in the company |
Whether between nations, within companies, or inside families, as long as these three conditions exist simultaneously, fear and insecurity in human nature will push the situation toward conflict.
What Does the “Thucydides Trap” Look Like in the Workplace?
Senior Manager vs. Parachuted Rookie
Imagine you are a senior manager who has been in the department for ten years, sitting comfortably in your position. Suddenly, a super newcomer graduated from a top university, full of AI automation talk, working late into the night, is parachuted in, and he shortens a report that originally took three days into three minutes.
| Role | Mindset |
|---|---|
| Senior Manager (Number One) | “This guy keeps proposing new ideas in meetings, is he trying to usurp my position? The general manager recently skipped me to ask for his opinion directly, am I about to be laid off?” |
| Parachuted Rookie (Number Two) | “This veteran is so inefficient, why does he get the highest bonus? He blocks my new proposals again, he is simply jealous of my talent!” |
At this point, the trust mechanism between the two has completely collapsed.
One day, just because of a trivial matter like “the microwave in the pantry wasn’t wiped clean” or “an email missed CC’ing someone”, both sides will directly form factions and start a full-scale confrontation.
In the end, it is usually a lose-lose situation, with one person leaving in anger and the team’s morale heavily damaged.
Business Giant vs. Disruptive Innovator
This trap also plays out every day in the business world. The number one usually doesn’t bother to compete with the number two on products, but directly uses “legal/capital encirclement” to resolve the threat.
| Scenario | Number One’s Reaction | Number Two’s Situation |
|---|---|---|
Traditional Taxi Industry vs. Uber |
Mobilize political and business relations to lobby the government: “This is illegal! Crack down on it completely!” | Suppressed by administrative means |
| Large Tech Giant vs. Independent Developer | Copy features and build them in, or directly acquire them at a premium | Subsumed or blocked |
When the
number onefeels fear, the first reaction is not to improve themselves, but to directly strangle thenumber twobefore their wings are fully grown.
Family Relations: Parental Authority vs. Adolescent Child
This is the most micro-level Thucydides Trap that everyone has experienced.
Before the age of 12, parents are the absolute authority, controlling all resources. But by age 16, the child is fully developed physically, has independent thoughts, and knows how to use logic to argue with parents.
Parents feel the fear of “loss of control” and often subconsciously use a harsher attitude to suppress them. The child feels “freedom is unreasonably deprived” and rebels even more fiercely.
Just because of trivial matters like “not eating dinner today” or “the bedroom door wasn’t locked”, both sides might directly flip the table, leading to years of silence.
Why is Reasoning Useless?
You might think: “Wouldn’t it be better if both sides sat down and communicated well?”
But the problem lies in the “structural contradiction” and the “limited resources” of the closed environment.
When trust collapses, any “communication” will be interpreted as “what trick is the other party playing again”.
| Dilemma of Communication | Result |
|---|---|
The number one hears the number two say “I’m not trying to take your position” |
The number one thinks: “People who say this are usually the ones who want to take it the most” |
The number two hears the number one say “I’m doing this to help you” |
The number two thinks: “Helping me? You are clearly blocking me!” |
Fear causes people to interpret all neutral signals as hostility.
This is why so many wars in history were not planned, but caused by “miscalculation”.
The number two makes a move they think is harmless, but the number one interprets it as “he is going to usurp me”, and opens fire directly.
The same goes for the office. When both sides already distrust each other, an email forgotten to CC, or a meeting not invited, can become the trigger for an all-out war.
How to Avoid a Lose-Lose Situation? Pragmatic Breakthrough Strategies
Since reasoning is useless, structural and pragmatic strategies must be adopted. These methods apply whether in international politics, business, or office infighting.
Strategy One: Bind Interests, Making “Action Equivalent to Suicide”
Peace is not built on mutual trust, but on “mutual hostage-holding”.
When the interests of both sides are deeply bound together, and taking action is equivalent to suicide, the trap will automatically fail.
| Scenario | Binding Method |
|---|---|
| Workplace | The manager brings the rookie into core projects, making the rookie’s contribution become the manager’s performance |
| Business | Apple's top-tier screens are supplied by Samsung; both sides depend on each other and cannot afford to fight |
| Family | Parents let the child participate in major family decisions, giving a sense of responsibility rather than suppression |
Strategy Two: Draw Red Lines, Building “Collision Barriers”
Conflicts often stem from “miscalculation”. When responsibilities are vague and boundaries are unclear, any action can be interpreted as an intrusion.
| Scenario | Line-Drawing Method |
|---|---|
| Workplace | The manager directly and explicitly divides territory: veterans are responsible for maintaining existing large clients, while rookies are responsible for developing brand-new product lines |
| Business | Sign non-compete agreements between enterprises, or divide respective market areas |
| Family | Agree with the child: You can decide these things yourself, but these things need to be discussed first |
When rules are clearly written in black and white, it can drastically reduce panic caused by “suspicion”.
Strategy Three: Open Up Blue Oceans, Making the Cake Bigger
People fight usually because “they are fighting for the same feed in the same small fish bowl”.
Since fighting for the top spot in the same battlefield is endless, the smartest approach is to jump out of this fish bowl.
| Scenario | Blue Ocean Approach |
|---|---|
| Workplace | Veterans focus on deepening client relationships, while rookies explore brand-new markets that veterans haven’t touched |
| Business | Two similar influencers fighting for fans? One continues with short videos, while the other shifts to in-depth interviews or co-branded products |
| Family | The child wants independent space? Let them be in charge of a family project (like planning a trip), satisfying autonomy needs without clashing with authority |
When the battlefield is pulled apart and each other’s goals no longer overlap, the competitive relationship will transform into parallel lines of respective development.
Strategy Four: The Art of Co-optation: Number One Becomes Investor, Number Two Becomes Partner
This is the clever trick that tech giants have loved using in recent years: “If you can’t beat them, join them (or buy them)”.
| Scenario | Co-optation Method |
|---|---|
| Business | Facebook sees Instagram rising and directly pulls out $1 billion to buy it |
| Workplace | Instead of suppressing the rookie, make them your capable assistant and turn their contributions into the team’s achievements |
| Family | Instead of going head-to-head with the child, let go and let them handle part of the affairs, becoming your “partner” |
The
number onereleases resources and a stage, thenumber twogets room to develop, and the trap is directly transformed into a thruster for progress.
See Through the Power Structure to Resolve Interpersonal Crises
Whether at work or in life, fear is often more likely to trigger conflict than hatred.
As long as you can see through this power structure, you can resolve interpersonal and workplace crises with more wisdom.
Next time you feel “suspicion” and “defensiveness” beginning to appear in a relationship, stop and ask yourself first:
- Am I the number one or the number two?
- Where does the other party’s fear come from?
- Is there a way to turn a “zero-sum game” into a “win-win situation”?
Once you see the structure clearly, you won’t be dragged away by emotions.