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        <title>What is the &#34;Thucydides Trap&#34; in the Workplace? What Happens When a Senior Veteran Meets a Super Rookie? Why is Reasoning Useless? Turning the &#34;Zero-Sum Game&#34; into a &#34;Win-Win Situation&#34; Can Break You Out of the &#34;Thucydides Trap&#34;!</title>
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        <description>&lt;img src="https://note.tldrlss.com/global-assets/images/knowledge/workplace-power-dynamics-1.jpg" alt="Featured image of post What is the &#34;Thucydides Trap&#34; in the Workplace? What Happens When a Senior Veteran Meets a Super Rookie? Why is Reasoning Useless? Turning the &#34;Zero-Sum Game&#34; into a &#34;Win-Win Situation&#34; Can Break You Out of the &#34;Thucydides Trap&#34;!" /&gt;&lt;p&gt;Have you ever encountered this situation? A highly capable newcomer is parachuted into the company, and their performance is approaching that of the senior manager at a rate of 20% per month. The manager praises them on the surface, but starts using &amp;ldquo;company processes&amp;rdquo; and &amp;ldquo;compliance risks&amp;rdquo; to block the newcomer&amp;rsquo;s projects.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;This is not targeted at individuals, but the &lt;strong&gt;&amp;ldquo;Thucydides Trap&amp;rdquo;&lt;/strong&gt; in human nature at work.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;h2 id=&#34;what-is-the-everyday-version-of-the-thucydides-trap&#34;&gt;What is the Everyday Version of the &amp;ldquo;Thucydides Trap&amp;rdquo;?
&lt;/h2&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Thucydides Trap&lt;/strong&gt; is an international political theory describing how when a newly rising &lt;code&gt;number two&lt;/code&gt; threatens the status of the &lt;code&gt;number one&lt;/code&gt;, both sides are highly likely to head toward conflict.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;But its essence is not &amp;ldquo;international politics&amp;rdquo;, but rather &lt;strong&gt;&amp;ldquo;the fatal flaw of human nature and power structures&amp;rdquo;&lt;/strong&gt;.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;As long as three conditions are met, this trap will &lt;strong&gt;automatically activate&lt;/strong&gt;.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;table&gt;
  &lt;thead&gt;
      &lt;tr&gt;
          &lt;th&gt;Condition&lt;/th&gt;
          &lt;th&gt;Explanation&lt;/th&gt;
      &lt;/tr&gt;
  &lt;/thead&gt;
  &lt;tbody&gt;
      &lt;tr&gt;
          &lt;td&gt;&lt;strong&gt;An established interest holder (Number One)&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/td&gt;
          &lt;td&gt;The party that occupies the position and &lt;strong&gt;controls resources&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/td&gt;
      &lt;/tr&gt;
      &lt;tr&gt;
          &lt;td&gt;&lt;strong&gt;A rapidly catching-up pursuer (Number Two)&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/td&gt;
          &lt;td&gt;The party that grows quickly and &lt;strong&gt;threatens the Number One&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/td&gt;
      &lt;/tr&gt;
      &lt;tr&gt;
          &lt;td&gt;&lt;strong&gt;A closed environment with limited resources&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/td&gt;
          &lt;td&gt;Limited promotion spots, a market of fixed size, only one dominant power in the company&lt;/td&gt;
      &lt;/tr&gt;
  &lt;/tbody&gt;
&lt;/table&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Whether &lt;strong&gt;between nations&lt;/strong&gt;, &lt;strong&gt;within companies&lt;/strong&gt;, or &lt;strong&gt;inside families&lt;/strong&gt;, as long as &lt;strong&gt;these three conditions exist simultaneously&lt;/strong&gt;, fear and insecurity in human nature will push the situation toward conflict.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;!--adsense--&gt;
&lt;h2 id=&#34;what-does-the-thucydides-trap-look-like-in-the-workplace&#34;&gt;What Does the &amp;ldquo;Thucydides Trap&amp;rdquo; Look Like in the Workplace?
&lt;/h2&gt;&lt;h3 id=&#34;senior-manager-vs-parachuted-rookie&#34;&gt;Senior Manager vs. Parachuted Rookie
&lt;/h3&gt;&lt;p&gt;Imagine you are a senior manager who has been in the department for ten years, sitting comfortably in your position. Suddenly, a super newcomer graduated from a top university, full of AI automation talk, working late into the night, is parachuted in, and he shortens a report that originally took three days into three minutes.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;table&gt;
  &lt;thead&gt;
      &lt;tr&gt;
          &lt;th&gt;Role&lt;/th&gt;
          &lt;th&gt;Mindset&lt;/th&gt;
      &lt;/tr&gt;
  &lt;/thead&gt;
  &lt;tbody&gt;
      &lt;tr&gt;
          &lt;td&gt;Senior Manager (Number One)&lt;/td&gt;
          &lt;td&gt;&amp;ldquo;This guy keeps proposing new ideas in meetings, &lt;strong&gt;is he trying to usurp my position&lt;/strong&gt;? The general manager recently skipped me to ask for his opinion directly, am I about to be laid off?&amp;rdquo;&lt;/td&gt;
      &lt;/tr&gt;
      &lt;tr&gt;
          &lt;td&gt;Parachuted Rookie (Number Two)&lt;/td&gt;
          &lt;td&gt;&amp;ldquo;This veteran is so inefficient, why does he get the highest bonus? He blocks my new proposals again, he is simply jealous of my talent!&amp;rdquo;&lt;/td&gt;
      &lt;/tr&gt;
  &lt;/tbody&gt;
&lt;/table&gt;
&lt;p&gt;At this point, the &lt;strong&gt;trust mechanism between the two has completely collapsed&lt;/strong&gt;.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;One day, just because of a trivial matter like &lt;strong&gt;&amp;ldquo;the microwave in the pantry wasn&amp;rsquo;t wiped clean&amp;rdquo;&lt;/strong&gt; or &lt;strong&gt;&amp;ldquo;an email missed CC&amp;rsquo;ing someone&amp;rdquo;&lt;/strong&gt;, both sides will directly form factions and start a full-scale confrontation.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;In the end, it is usually a &lt;strong&gt;lose-lose situation&lt;/strong&gt;, with one person leaving in anger and the team&amp;rsquo;s morale heavily damaged.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;h3 id=&#34;business-giant-vs-disruptive-innovator&#34;&gt;Business Giant vs. Disruptive Innovator
&lt;/h3&gt;&lt;p&gt;This trap also plays out every day in the business world. The &lt;code&gt;number one&lt;/code&gt; usually doesn&amp;rsquo;t bother to compete with the &lt;code&gt;number two&lt;/code&gt; on products, but directly uses &lt;strong&gt;&amp;ldquo;legal/capital encirclement&amp;rdquo;&lt;/strong&gt; to resolve the threat.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;table&gt;
  &lt;thead&gt;
      &lt;tr&gt;
          &lt;th&gt;Scenario&lt;/th&gt;
          &lt;th&gt;Number One&amp;rsquo;s Reaction&lt;/th&gt;
          &lt;th&gt;Number Two&amp;rsquo;s Situation&lt;/th&gt;
      &lt;/tr&gt;
  &lt;/thead&gt;
  &lt;tbody&gt;
      &lt;tr&gt;
          &lt;td&gt;Traditional Taxi Industry vs. &lt;code&gt;Uber&lt;/code&gt;&lt;/td&gt;
          &lt;td&gt;Mobilize political and business relations to lobby the government: &amp;ldquo;This is illegal! Crack down on it completely!&amp;rdquo;&lt;/td&gt;
          &lt;td&gt;Suppressed by administrative means&lt;/td&gt;
      &lt;/tr&gt;
      &lt;tr&gt;
          &lt;td&gt;Large Tech Giant vs. Independent Developer&lt;/td&gt;
          &lt;td&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Copy features and build them in&lt;/strong&gt;, or &lt;strong&gt;directly acquire them at a premium&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/td&gt;
          &lt;td&gt;Subsumed or blocked&lt;/td&gt;
      &lt;/tr&gt;
  &lt;/tbody&gt;
&lt;/table&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;When the &lt;code&gt;number one&lt;/code&gt; feels fear, the first reaction is &lt;strong&gt;not to improve themselves&lt;/strong&gt;, but to &lt;strong&gt;directly strangle the &lt;code&gt;number two&lt;/code&gt; before their wings are fully grown&lt;/strong&gt;.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;h3 id=&#34;family-relations-parental-authority-vs-adolescent-child&#34;&gt;Family Relations: Parental Authority vs. Adolescent Child
&lt;/h3&gt;&lt;p&gt;This is the most micro-level &lt;strong&gt;Thucydides Trap&lt;/strong&gt; that everyone has experienced.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Before the age of 12, &lt;strong&gt;parents are the absolute authority, controlling all resources&lt;/strong&gt;. But by age 16, the child is fully developed physically, has &lt;strong&gt;independent thoughts&lt;/strong&gt;, and &lt;strong&gt;knows how to use logic to argue with parents&lt;/strong&gt;.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Parents feel the fear of &lt;strong&gt;&amp;ldquo;loss of control&amp;rdquo;&lt;/strong&gt; and often subconsciously use a &lt;strong&gt;harsher attitude to suppress them&lt;/strong&gt;. The child feels &lt;strong&gt;&amp;ldquo;freedom is unreasonably deprived&amp;rdquo;&lt;/strong&gt; and rebels even more fiercely.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Just because of trivial matters like &lt;strong&gt;&amp;ldquo;not eating dinner today&amp;rdquo;&lt;/strong&gt; or &lt;strong&gt;&amp;ldquo;the bedroom door wasn&amp;rsquo;t locked&amp;rdquo;&lt;/strong&gt;, both sides might directly flip the table, leading to years of silence.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;h2 id=&#34;why-is-reasoning-useless&#34;&gt;Why is Reasoning Useless?
&lt;/h2&gt;&lt;p&gt;You might think: &amp;ldquo;Wouldn&amp;rsquo;t it be better if both sides sat down and communicated well?&amp;rdquo;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;But the problem lies in the &lt;strong&gt;&amp;ldquo;structural contradiction&amp;rdquo;&lt;/strong&gt; and the &lt;strong&gt;&amp;ldquo;limited resources&amp;rdquo;&lt;/strong&gt; of the closed environment.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;When &lt;strong&gt;trust collapses&lt;/strong&gt;, any &amp;ldquo;communication&amp;rdquo; will be interpreted as &lt;strong&gt;&amp;ldquo;what trick is the other party playing again&amp;rdquo;&lt;/strong&gt;.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;table&gt;
  &lt;thead&gt;
      &lt;tr&gt;
          &lt;th&gt;Dilemma of Communication&lt;/th&gt;
          &lt;th&gt;Result&lt;/th&gt;
      &lt;/tr&gt;
  &lt;/thead&gt;
  &lt;tbody&gt;
      &lt;tr&gt;
          &lt;td&gt;The &lt;code&gt;number one&lt;/code&gt; hears the &lt;code&gt;number two&lt;/code&gt; say &amp;ldquo;I&amp;rsquo;m not trying to take your position&amp;rdquo;&lt;/td&gt;
          &lt;td&gt;The &lt;code&gt;number one&lt;/code&gt; thinks: &amp;ldquo;People who say this are usually the ones who want to take it the most&amp;rdquo;&lt;/td&gt;
      &lt;/tr&gt;
      &lt;tr&gt;
          &lt;td&gt;The &lt;code&gt;number two&lt;/code&gt; hears the &lt;code&gt;number one&lt;/code&gt; say &amp;ldquo;I&amp;rsquo;m doing this to help you&amp;rdquo;&lt;/td&gt;
          &lt;td&gt;The &lt;code&gt;number two&lt;/code&gt; thinks: &amp;ldquo;Helping me? You are clearly blocking me!&amp;rdquo;&lt;/td&gt;
      &lt;/tr&gt;
  &lt;/tbody&gt;
&lt;/table&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Fear causes people to interpret all neutral signals as hostility.&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;This is why so many wars in history were not planned, but caused by &lt;strong&gt;&amp;ldquo;miscalculation&amp;rdquo;&lt;/strong&gt;.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;The &lt;code&gt;number two&lt;/code&gt; makes a move they &lt;strong&gt;think is harmless&lt;/strong&gt;, but the &lt;code&gt;number one&lt;/code&gt; interprets it as &lt;strong&gt;&amp;ldquo;he is going to usurp me&amp;rdquo;&lt;/strong&gt;, and opens fire directly.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;The same goes for the office. &lt;strong&gt;When both sides already distrust each other&lt;/strong&gt;, an email forgotten to CC, or a meeting not invited, can become the &lt;strong&gt;trigger for an all-out war&lt;/strong&gt;.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;!--adsense--&gt;
&lt;h2 id=&#34;how-to-avoid-a-lose-lose-situation-pragmatic-breakthrough-strategies&#34;&gt;How to Avoid a Lose-Lose Situation? Pragmatic Breakthrough Strategies
&lt;/h2&gt;&lt;p&gt;Since reasoning is useless, &lt;strong&gt;structural and pragmatic strategies&lt;/strong&gt; must be adopted. These methods apply whether in international politics, business, or office infighting.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;h3 id=&#34;strategy-one-bind-interests-making-action-equivalent-to-suicide&#34;&gt;Strategy One: Bind Interests, Making &amp;ldquo;Action Equivalent to Suicide&amp;rdquo;
&lt;/h3&gt;&lt;p&gt;Peace is not built on mutual trust, but on &lt;strong&gt;&amp;ldquo;mutual hostage-holding&amp;rdquo;&lt;/strong&gt;.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;When the &lt;strong&gt;interests of both sides are deeply bound together&lt;/strong&gt;, and taking action is equivalent to &lt;strong&gt;suicide&lt;/strong&gt;, the trap will automatically fail.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;table&gt;
  &lt;thead&gt;
      &lt;tr&gt;
          &lt;th&gt;Scenario&lt;/th&gt;
          &lt;th&gt;Binding Method&lt;/th&gt;
      &lt;/tr&gt;
  &lt;/thead&gt;
  &lt;tbody&gt;
      &lt;tr&gt;
          &lt;td&gt;Workplace&lt;/td&gt;
          &lt;td&gt;The manager brings the rookie into core projects, making the &lt;strong&gt;rookie&amp;rsquo;s contribution become the manager&amp;rsquo;s performance&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/td&gt;
      &lt;/tr&gt;
      &lt;tr&gt;
          &lt;td&gt;Business&lt;/td&gt;
          &lt;td&gt;&lt;code&gt;Apple&#39;s&lt;/code&gt; top-tier screens are supplied by &lt;code&gt;Samsung&lt;/code&gt;; both sides depend on each other and cannot afford to fight&lt;/td&gt;
      &lt;/tr&gt;
      &lt;tr&gt;
          &lt;td&gt;Family&lt;/td&gt;
          &lt;td&gt;Parents let the child participate in major family decisions, &lt;strong&gt;giving a sense of responsibility rather than suppression&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/td&gt;
      &lt;/tr&gt;
  &lt;/tbody&gt;
&lt;/table&gt;
&lt;h3 id=&#34;strategy-two-draw-red-lines-building-collision-barriers&#34;&gt;Strategy Two: Draw Red Lines, Building &amp;ldquo;Collision Barriers&amp;rdquo;
&lt;/h3&gt;&lt;p&gt;Conflicts often stem from &lt;strong&gt;&amp;ldquo;miscalculation&amp;rdquo;&lt;/strong&gt;. When &lt;strong&gt;responsibilities are vague&lt;/strong&gt; and &lt;strong&gt;boundaries are unclear&lt;/strong&gt;, any action can be interpreted as an intrusion.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;table&gt;
  &lt;thead&gt;
      &lt;tr&gt;
          &lt;th&gt;Scenario&lt;/th&gt;
          &lt;th&gt;Line-Drawing Method&lt;/th&gt;
      &lt;/tr&gt;
  &lt;/thead&gt;
  &lt;tbody&gt;
      &lt;tr&gt;
          &lt;td&gt;Workplace&lt;/td&gt;
          &lt;td&gt;The manager &lt;strong&gt;directly and explicitly divides territory&lt;/strong&gt;: veterans are responsible for maintaining existing large clients, while rookies are responsible for developing brand-new product lines&lt;/td&gt;
      &lt;/tr&gt;
      &lt;tr&gt;
          &lt;td&gt;Business&lt;/td&gt;
          &lt;td&gt;Sign non-compete agreements between enterprises, or &lt;strong&gt;divide respective market areas&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/td&gt;
      &lt;/tr&gt;
      &lt;tr&gt;
          &lt;td&gt;Family&lt;/td&gt;
          &lt;td&gt;Agree with the child: &lt;strong&gt;You can decide these things yourself, but these things need to be discussed first&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/td&gt;
      &lt;/tr&gt;
  &lt;/tbody&gt;
&lt;/table&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;When rules are &lt;strong&gt;clearly written in black and white&lt;/strong&gt;, it can drastically reduce panic caused by &amp;ldquo;suspicion&amp;rdquo;.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;h3 id=&#34;strategy-three-open-up-blue-oceans-making-the-cake-bigger&#34;&gt;Strategy Three: Open Up Blue Oceans, Making the Cake Bigger
&lt;/h3&gt;&lt;p&gt;People fight usually because &lt;strong&gt;&amp;ldquo;they are fighting for the same feed in the same small fish bowl&amp;rdquo;&lt;/strong&gt;.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Since fighting for the top spot in the same battlefield is endless, the smartest approach is to &lt;strong&gt;jump out of this fish bowl&lt;/strong&gt;.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;table&gt;
  &lt;thead&gt;
      &lt;tr&gt;
          &lt;th&gt;Scenario&lt;/th&gt;
          &lt;th&gt;Blue Ocean Approach&lt;/th&gt;
      &lt;/tr&gt;
  &lt;/thead&gt;
  &lt;tbody&gt;
      &lt;tr&gt;
          &lt;td&gt;Workplace&lt;/td&gt;
          &lt;td&gt;Veterans focus on &lt;strong&gt;deepening client relationships&lt;/strong&gt;, while rookies &lt;strong&gt;explore brand-new markets that veterans haven&amp;rsquo;t touched&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/td&gt;
      &lt;/tr&gt;
      &lt;tr&gt;
          &lt;td&gt;Business&lt;/td&gt;
          &lt;td&gt;Two similar influencers fighting for fans? One continues with &lt;strong&gt;short videos&lt;/strong&gt;, while the other shifts to &lt;strong&gt;in-depth interviews&lt;/strong&gt; or &lt;strong&gt;co-branded products&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/td&gt;
      &lt;/tr&gt;
      &lt;tr&gt;
          &lt;td&gt;Family&lt;/td&gt;
          &lt;td&gt;The child wants independent space? Let them be in charge of a family project (like planning a trip), &lt;strong&gt;satisfying autonomy needs without clashing with authority&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/td&gt;
      &lt;/tr&gt;
  &lt;/tbody&gt;
&lt;/table&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;When the battlefield is pulled apart and &lt;strong&gt;each other&amp;rsquo;s goals no longer overlap&lt;/strong&gt;, the competitive relationship will &lt;strong&gt;transform into parallel lines of respective development&lt;/strong&gt;.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;h3 id=&#34;strategy-four-the-art-of-co-optation-number-one-becomes-investor-number-two-becomes-partner&#34;&gt;Strategy Four: The Art of Co-optation: Number One Becomes Investor, Number Two Becomes Partner
&lt;/h3&gt;&lt;p&gt;This is the clever trick that tech giants have loved using in recent years: &amp;ldquo;If you can&amp;rsquo;t beat them, join them (or buy them)&amp;rdquo;.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;table&gt;
  &lt;thead&gt;
      &lt;tr&gt;
          &lt;th&gt;Scenario&lt;/th&gt;
          &lt;th&gt;Co-optation Method&lt;/th&gt;
      &lt;/tr&gt;
  &lt;/thead&gt;
  &lt;tbody&gt;
      &lt;tr&gt;
          &lt;td&gt;Business&lt;/td&gt;
          &lt;td&gt;&lt;code&gt;Facebook&lt;/code&gt; sees &lt;code&gt;Instagram&lt;/code&gt; rising and directly pulls out $1 billion to buy it&lt;/td&gt;
      &lt;/tr&gt;
      &lt;tr&gt;
          &lt;td&gt;Workplace&lt;/td&gt;
          &lt;td&gt;Instead of suppressing the rookie, &lt;strong&gt;make them your capable assistant&lt;/strong&gt; and turn their contributions into the team&amp;rsquo;s achievements&lt;/td&gt;
      &lt;/tr&gt;
      &lt;tr&gt;
          &lt;td&gt;Family&lt;/td&gt;
          &lt;td&gt;Instead of going head-to-head with the child, &lt;strong&gt;let go and let them handle part of the affairs&lt;/strong&gt;, becoming your &amp;ldquo;partner&amp;rdquo;&lt;/td&gt;
      &lt;/tr&gt;
  &lt;/tbody&gt;
&lt;/table&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;The &lt;code&gt;number one&lt;/code&gt; &lt;strong&gt;releases resources and a stage&lt;/strong&gt;, the &lt;code&gt;number two&lt;/code&gt; &lt;strong&gt;gets room to develop&lt;/strong&gt;, and the trap is directly &lt;strong&gt;transformed into a thruster for progress&lt;/strong&gt;.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;h2 id=&#34;see-through-the-power-structure-to-resolve-interpersonal-crises&#34;&gt;See Through the Power Structure to Resolve Interpersonal Crises
&lt;/h2&gt;&lt;p&gt;Whether at work or in life, &lt;strong&gt;fear is often more likely to trigger conflict than hatred&lt;/strong&gt;.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;As long as you can see through this power structure, you can resolve interpersonal and workplace crises with more wisdom.&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Next time you feel &lt;strong&gt;&amp;ldquo;suspicion&amp;rdquo;&lt;/strong&gt; and &lt;strong&gt;&amp;ldquo;defensiveness&amp;rdquo;&lt;/strong&gt; beginning to appear in a relationship, stop and ask yourself first:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;ul&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Am I the number one or the number two?&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Where does the other party&amp;rsquo;s fear come from?&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Is there a way to turn a &lt;strong&gt;&amp;ldquo;zero-sum game&amp;rdquo;&lt;/strong&gt; into a &lt;strong&gt;&amp;ldquo;win-win situation&amp;rdquo;&lt;/strong&gt;?&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;/ul&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Once you see the structure clearly, you won&amp;rsquo;t be dragged away by emotions.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;!--adsense--&gt;
&lt;h2 id=&#34;reference&#34;&gt;Reference
&lt;/h2&gt;&lt;ul&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;a class=&#34;link&#34; href=&#34;https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Thucydides_Trap&#34;  target=&#34;_blank&#34; rel=&#34;noopener&#34;
    &gt;Thucydides Trap - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;a class=&#34;link&#34; href=&#34;https://blog.luckertw.com/political-and-economic-series-thucydidess-trap/&#34;  target=&#34;_blank&#34; rel=&#34;noopener&#34;
    &gt;[Political &amp;amp; Economic Series] — What does the &amp;ldquo;Thucydides Trap&amp;rdquo; have to do with us? Clarify relevant concepts in 3 minutes&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
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